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For the Love of Mary Ann Passingham.

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Dear Love,

I wanted you to know that my great grandmother’s name was Mary Ann Passingham and she was born on the Isle of Wight. And that some day I’m going to write a romance novel and use Mary Ann Passingham as my pen name.

I wanted you to know that I have always had a passion for reading books and I think that was a gift from Mary Ann Passingham.

I wanted you to know that when I was growing up and everyone else in my house was watching television, I read books.  And that I dreamed about another life that had nothing to do with the one that I lived.

I wanted you to know that my mother was raised by Mary Ann Passingham and that she died when my older brother was two months old.

And that my mother loved her dearly.  I say my mother, “loved dearly” because Mary Ann Passingham was the only person who ever called my mother “dear” while she was growing up.

And I wanted you to know that because Mary Ann Passingham called my mother “dear”, my mother at age ten, would walk two miles to Eaton’s to buy Mary a spool of embroidery thread. Just to be her dear.  And because Mary taught my mother how to embroider. And my mother taught me.

I wanted you to know that Mary Ann Passingham had no money but she loved my mother dearly and that once she gave my mother a bottle of Evening in Paris perfume for Christmas.  My mother cherished that bottle of perfume.  It didn’t matter that it cost only seventeen cents because it was a gift from Mary.  And she received no others that year.

I wanted you to know that I never understood why I loved books so much until my mother told me that Mary Ann Passingham spent her days reading books, doing embroidery and growing vegetables in the summer.  In the summer my mother and her sisters feasted on Mary’s garden.

And I wanted you to know that Mary taught my mother how to bake bread.  And my mother taught me.  And that my mother loved sandwiches made with Mary’s homemade bread and lettuce from her garden.

And that I love sandwiches made with my mother’s homemade bread and lettuce freshly picked from her garden.

I wanted you to know that I love to spend my days reading books, doing embroidery and growing vegetables in the summer.

I wanted you to know that Mary Ann Passingham had a china cabinet made of carved oak filled with knick-knacks and trinkets and that my mother polished it for her every Saturday morning.

And that my mother has a china cabinet made of Canadian maple filled with knick-knacks and trinkets but I never spent my Saturdays polishing it.  Although I loved that china cabinet.

I don’t have a china cabinet but I have a house filled with knick-knacks and ornaments.  And I love them dearly.

I wanted you to know about all these wonderful gifts that Marry Ann Passingham gave to my mother.  And my mother gave to me.  I never knew Mary Ann Passingham.  Only my mother did.

But I wanted you to know that I love my mother dearly just as she did Mary.  And even though I never met Mary I loved her dearly too.

Love,

Boo

Footnote: I came across this sweet little piece today while looking for an old story I had written called The Sixteen Jacket. I hadn’t seen it in years and thought it was lost. Both this piece and The Sixteen Jacket were written decades ago when I was a young woman, and long before my mother died.  I don’t even remember who “Dear Love” was. I’ve decided to share it unedited, and exactly as I had written it back then, to honor with loving kindness the young blossoming writer that was just beginning to emerge from a veil of shy awkwardness.

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